The missing one

This is my favourite video Wong Fu has made. Speaks to me so much. I wish I could use it for my wedding. You don’t need to change it, it’s perfect just make another that reflects the wisdom and insight you have now. As always Phil, you speak to our hearts.

You are How I love, with you I learnt that Love is not a feeling but a choice, that love is beyond romance and giggles and moments. With you I learnt that Love is for the Other and you loving me without condition and choosing to love me everyday has taught me how to love. You love me like Christ loves his Church. I will spend the rest of my life trying to love you like that as well.

True Story

Two years ago today, “The Last” was released. What a coincidence that a few weeks ago, one groggy morning, a new revelation about the short randomly came to me as I laid in bed. In the video, I listed out 5 “loves” that influenced the man… but I missed one.


The truth is, I did consider it as I was finishing the script, but left it out on purpose, thinking that it didn’t fit with the structure and the message. But I was wrong.

Who, What, When, Where, Why I love… those are all reactive. Each of those happened to him. They each existed and he took what he wanted. That is the whole angle of the short. The 5 loves, these 5 women, and who/what/when/where/why they affected me. But “How” is totally different. “How” is the way in which I reciprocate. It’s active. It’s what we do together

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